Proverbs Chapter 23

Commentary

Consider Diligently what is Before You

1When thou sittest to eat with a ruler, consider diligently what is before thee:

2And put a knife to thy throat, if thou be a man given to appetite.

3Be not desirous of his dainties: for they are deceitful meat.

4Labour not to be rich: cease from thine own wisdom.

5Wilt thou set thine eyes upon that which is not? for riches certainly make themselves wings; they fly away as an eagle toward heaven.

6Eat thou not the bread of him that hath an evil eye, neither desire thou his dainty meats:

7For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he: Eat and drink, saith he to thee; but his heart is not with thee.

8The morsel which thou hast eaten shalt thou vomit up, and lose thy sweet words.

9Speak not in the ears of a fool: for he will despise the wisdom of thy words.

10Remove not the old landmark; and enter not into the fields of the fatherless:

11For their redeemer is mighty; he shall plead their cause with thee.

12Apply thine heart unto instruction, and thine ears to the words of knowledge.

13Withhold not correction from the child: for if thou beatest him with the rod, he shall not die.

14Thou shalt beat him with the rod, and shalt deliver his soul from hell.

15My son, if thine heart be wise, my heart shall rejoice, even mine.

16Yea, my reins shall rejoice, when thy lips speak right things.

17Let not thine heart envy sinners: but be thou in the fear of the LORD all the day long.

18For surely there is an end; and thine expectation shall not be cut off.

19Hear thou, my son, and be wise, and guide thine heart in the way.

20Be not among winebibbers; among riotous eaters of flesh:

21For the drunkard and the glutton shall come to poverty: and drowsiness shall clothe a man with rags.

22Hearken unto thy father that begat thee, and despise not thy mother when she is old.

23Buy the truth, and sell it not; also wisdom, and instruction, and understanding.

24The father of the righteous shall greatly rejoice: and he that begetteth a wise child shall have joy of him.

25Thy father and thy mother shall be glad, and she that bare thee shall rejoice.

26My son, give me thine heart, and let thine eyes observe my ways.

27For a whore is a deep ditch; and a strange woman is a narrow pit.

28She also lieth in wait as for a prey, and increaseth the transgressors among men.

29Who hath woe? who hath sorrow? who hath contentions? who hath babbling? who hath wounds without cause? who hath redness of eyes?

30They that tarry long at the wine; they that go to seek mixed wine.

31Look not thou upon the wine when it is red, when it giveth his colour in the cup, when it moveth itself aright.

32At the last it biteth like a serpent, and stingeth like an adder.

33Thine eyes shall behold strange women, and thine heart shall utter perverse things.

34Yea, thou shalt be as he that lieth down in the midst of the sea, or as he that lieth upon the top of a mast.

35They have stricken me, shalt thou say, and I was not sick; they have beaten me, and I felt it not: when shall I awake? I will seek it yet again.

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True Riches
(1 Timothy 6:17–19; James 5:1–6)

Saying 7

1 When you sit to eat with a ruler, consider diligently what is before you;

2 put a knife to your throat, if you are a man given to appetite.

3 Don’t be desirous of his dainties, since they are deceitful food.

Saying 8

4 Don’t weary yourself to be rich. In your wisdom, show restraint.

5 Why do you set your eyes on that which is not? For it certainly sprouts wings like an eagle and flies in the sky.

Saying 9

6 Don’t eat the food of him who has a stingy eye, and don’t crave his delicacies:

7 for as he thinks about the cost, so he is. “Eat and drink!” he says to you, but his heart is not with you.

8 The morsel which you have eaten you shall vomit up, and lose your good words.

Saying 10

9 Don’t speak in the ears of a fool, for he will despise the wisdom of your words.

Saying 11

10 Don’t move the ancient boundary stone. Don’t encroach on the fields of the fatherless:

11 for their Defender is strong. He will plead their case against you.

Saying 12

12 Apply your heart to instruction, and your ears to the words of knowledge.

Saying 13

13 Don’t withhold correction from a child. If you punish him with the rod, he will not die.

14 Punish him with the rod, and save his soul from Sheol.

Saying 14

15 My son, if your heart is wise, then my heart will be glad, even mine:

16 yes, my heart will rejoice, when your lips speak what is right.

Saying 15

17 Don’t let your heart envy sinners; but rather fear Yahweh all the day long.

18 Indeed surely there is a future hope, and your hope will not be cut off.

Saying 16

19 Listen, my son, and be wise, and keep your heart on the right path!

20 Don’t be among ones drinking too much wine, or those who gorge themselves on meat:

21 for the drunkard and the glutton shall become poor; and drowsiness clothes them in rags.

Saying 17

22 Listen to your father who gave you life, and don’t despise your mother when she is old.

23 Buy the truth, and don’t sell it. Get wisdom, discipline, and understanding.

24 The father of the righteous has great joy. Whoever fathers a wise child delights in him.

25 Let your father and your mother be glad! Let her who bore you rejoice!

Saying 18

26 My son, give me your heart; and let your eyes keep in my ways.

27 For a prostitute is a deep pit; and a wayward wife is a narrow well.

28 Yes, she lies in wait like a robber, and increases the unfaithful among men.

Saying 19

29 Who has woe? Who has sorrow? Who has strife? Who has complaints? Who has needless bruises? Who has bloodshot eyes?

30 Those who stay long at the wine; those who go to seek out mixed wine.

31 Don’t look at the wine when it is red, when it sparkles in the cup, when it goes down smoothly.

32 In the end, it bites like a snake, and poisons like a viper.

33 Your eyes will see strange things, and your mind will imagine confusing things.

34 Yes, you will be as he who lies down in the midst of the sea, or as he who lies on top of the rigging:

35 “They hit me, and I was not hurt! They beat me, and I don’t feel it! When will I wake up? I can do it again. I can find another.”

True Riches
(1 Timothy 6:17–19; James 5:1–6)

Saying 7

1 When you sit down to dine with a ruler,

consider carefully what is set before you, a

2 and put a knife to your throat

if you possess a great appetite.

3 Do not crave his delicacies,

for that food is deceptive.

Saying 8

4 Do not wear yourself out to get rich;

be wise enough to restrain yourself.

5 When you glance at wealth, it disappears,

for it makes wings for itself

and flies like an eagle to the sky.

Saying 9

6 Do not eat the bread of a stingy man, b

and do not crave his delicacies;

7 for he is keeping track,

inwardly counting the cost. c

“Eat and drink,” he says to you,

but his heart is not with you.

8 You will vomit up what little you have eaten

and waste your pleasant words.

Saying 10

9 Do not speak to a fool,

for he will despise the wisdom of your words.

Saying 11

10 Do not move an ancient boundary stone

or encroach on the fields of the fatherless,

11 for their Redeemer is strong;

He will take up their case against you.

Saying 12

12 Apply your heart to instruction

and your ears to words of knowledge.

Saying 13

13 Do not withhold discipline from a child;

although you strike him with a rod, he will not die.

14 Strike him with a rod,

and you will deliver his soul from Sheol.

Saying 14

15 My son, if your heart is wise,

my own heart will indeed rejoice.

16 My inmost being d will rejoice

when your lips speak what is right.

Saying 15

17 Do not let your heart envy sinners,

but always continue in the fear of the LORD.

18 For surely there is a future,

and your hope will not be cut off.

Saying 16

19 Listen, my son, and be wise,

and guide your heart on the right course.

20 Do not join those who drink too much wine

or gorge themselves on meat.

21 For the drunkard and the glutton will come to poverty,

and drowsiness will clothe them in rags.

Saying 17

22 Listen to your father who gave you life,

and do not despise your mother when she is old.

23 Invest in truth and never sell it—

in wisdom and instruction and understanding.

24 The father of a righteous man will greatly rejoice,

and he who fathers a wise son will delight in him.

25 May your father and mother be glad,

and may she who gave you birth rejoice!

Saying 18

26 My son, give me your heart,

and let your eyes delight in my ways.

27 For a prostitute is a deep pit,

and an adulteress e is a narrow well.

28 Like a robber she lies in wait

and multiplies the faithless among men.

Saying 19

29 Who has woe? Who has sorrow?

Who has contentions? Who has complaints?

Who has needless wounds? Who has bloodshot eyes?

30 Those who linger over wine,

who go to taste mixed drinks.

31 Do not gaze at wine while it is red,

when it sparkles in the cup

and goes down smoothly.

32 In the end it bites like a snake

and stings like a viper.

33 Your eyes will see strange things,

and your mind will utter perversities.

34 You will be like one sleeping on the high seas

or lying on the top of a mast:

35 “They struck me, but I feel no pain!

They beat me, but I did not know it!

When can I wake up

to search for another drink?”

 

Footnotes:

1 a Or who is before you
6 b Literally of him whose eye is evil
7 c Or for as he calculates in his soul, so is he
16 d Hebrew My kidneys
27 e Or a foreign woman  or a wayward wife

Consider Diligently what is Before You

1When thou sittest to eat with a ruler, Thou considerest diligently that which is before thee,

2And thou hast put a knife to thy throat, If thou art a man of appetite.

3Have no desire to his dainties, seeing it is lying food.

4Labour not to make wealth, From thine own understanding cease, Dost thou cause thine eyes to fly upon it? Then it is not.

5For wealth maketh to itself wings, As an eagle it flieth to the heavens.

6Eat not the bread of an evil eye, And have no desire to his dainties,

7For as he hath thought in his soul, so is he, 'Eat and drink,' saith he to thee, And his heart is not with thee.

8Thy morsel thou hast eaten thou dost vomit up, And hast marred thy words that are sweet.

9In the ears of a fool speak not, For he treadeth on the wisdom of thy words.

10Remove not a border of olden times, And into fields of the fatherless enter not,

11For their Redeemer is strong, He doth plead their cause with thee.

12Bring in to instruction thy heart, And thine ear to sayings of knowledge.

13Withhold not from a youth chastisement, When thou smitest him with a rod he dieth not.

14Thou with a rod smitest him, And his soul from Sheol thou deliverest.

15My son, if thy heart hath been wise, My heart rejoiceth, even mine,

16And my reins exult when thy lips speak uprightly.

17Let not thy heart be envious at sinners, But -- in the fear of Jehovah all the day.

18For, is there a posterity? Then thy hope is not cut off.

19Hear thou, my son, and be wise, And make happy in the way thy heart,

20Be not thou among quaffers of wine, Among gluttonous ones of flesh,

21For the quaffer and glutton become poor, And drowsiness clotheth with rags.

22Hearken to thy father, who begat thee, And despise not thy mother when she hath become old.

23Truth buy, and sell not, Wisdom, and instruction, and understanding,

24The father of the righteous rejoiceth greatly, The begetter of the wise rejoiceth in him.

25Rejoice doth thy father and thy mother, Yea, she that bare thee is joyful.

26Give, my son, thy heart to me, And let thine eyes watch my ways.

27For a harlot is a deep ditch, And a strange woman is a strait pit.

28She also, as catching prey, lieth in wait, And the treacherous among men she increaseth.

29Who hath woe? who hath sorrow? Who hath contentions? who hath plaint? Who hath wounds without cause? Who hath redness of eyes?

30Those tarrying by the wine, Those going in to search out mixed wine.

31See not wine when it showeth itself red, When it giveth in the cup its colour, It goeth up and down through the upright.

32Its latter end -- as a serpent it biteth, And as a basilisk it stingeth.

33Thine eyes see strange women, And thy heart speaketh perverse things.

34And thou hast been as one lying down in the heart of the sea, And as one lying down on the top of a mast.

35'They smote me, I have not been sick, They beat me, I have not known. When I awake -- I seek it yet again!'

The F.O.G Commentary:

What is the meaning of Proverbs 23?

Introduction to Proverbs 23

Proverbs 23 stands as a masterful collection of wisdom teachings centered on self-control, discernment, and the pursuit of godly wisdom. This chapter distinguishes itself through its vivid imagery and practical counsel, particularly addressing matters of appetite – both literal and metaphorical. The warnings against excess, greed, and the importance of wisdom are presented through powerful metaphors that resonate across cultures and time periods, making it particularly relevant for modern readers seeking to navigate a world of endless temptations and choices.

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Context of Proverbs 23

Proverbs 23 falls within the section of Proverbs known as “The Thirty Sayings of the Wise” (Proverbs 22:17-24:22), a collection that bears remarkable similarities to the Egyptian “Wisdom of Amenemope.” This connection demonstrates how God’s wisdom transcends cultural boundaries while maintaining its distinct spiritual character. The chapter builds upon earlier themes in Proverbs while adding its own unique emphasis on self-discipline and discernment.

The larger context reveals this chapter’s role in preparing God’s people for living wisely in a world full of temptations and deceptions. It connects to the broader Biblical narrative of wisdom literature, where divine wisdom is presented as the key to living a life that honors יהוה (Yahweh). This chapter particularly emphasizes the practical outworking of wisdom in daily decisions and relationships.

This collection of sayings serves as a bridge between the more general wisdom sayings of earlier chapters and the more specific applications that follow. Its placement suggests careful editorial arrangement to build upon previous teachings while preparing readers for deeper applications of wisdom.

Ancient Key Word Study

  • שָׁלִישׁ (shalish) – “ruler” (v. 1): This word literally means “third in rank” and was used to describe high-ranking military officers. Its usage here suggests not just dining with any superior, but specifically one with significant authority and influence, emphasizing the gravity of the social situation being addressed.
  • בִּין (bin) – “discern” (v. 1): This root word appears frequently in wisdom literature and implies more than mere understanding; it suggests the ability to distinguish between appearances and reality. The word carries the sense of penetrating insight that sees beyond surface-level observations.
  • לַ֝עַ֗ג (la’ag) – “mocker” (v. 9): This term describes someone who habitually ridicules wisdom and correction. The word picture comes from the idea of speaking in a foreign tongue, suggesting those who make wisdom sound like nonsense through their cynical response.
  • גֹּאֵל (go’el) – “redeemer” (v. 11): Though not explicitly mentioned, this concept underlies the warning about property boundaries. The term refers to a kinsman-redeemer who would defend family rights and property, pointing prophetically to the Messiah’s role as our Ultimate Redeemer.
  • שְׁאוֹל (sheol) – “grave” (v. 14): This word represents more than just physical death; it encompasses the entire realm of death and judgment. Its usage here emphasizes the eternal consequences of parental discipline and guidance.
  • קִנְאָה (qin’ah) – “envy” (v. 17): The root meaning suggests intense desire or zeal. When directed toward evil, it becomes destructive envy, but when directed toward יהוה, it becomes holy zeal – a fascinating dual usage that appears in this chapter.
  • הוֹמִיָּה (homiyah) – “loud” (v. 27): Used to describe the seductress, this word literally means “tumultuous” or “clamorous.” It paints a picture of chaos and disorder, contrasting with wisdom’s quiet dignity.
  • תַּנִּים (tannim) – “serpent” (v. 32): The word used for the snake’s bite in the wine metaphor specifically refers to a venomous serpent, emphasizing the deadly nature of alcohol’s deception rather than just its immediate effects.

Compare & Contrast

  • Verse 1’s instruction to “consider diligently what is before you” uses the Hebrew phrase שִׂ֣ים שָׂ֭כִּין (sim sakkin), literally “put a knife to your throat.” This stark imagery was chosen over milder alternatives to emphasize the deadly seriousness of self-control in the presence of authority. The metaphorical violence serves as a powerful mnemonic device in Hebrew wisdom literature.
  • The warning against “deceptive food” in verse 3 employs כָּזָב (kazab), typically used for intentional deception, rather than שֶׁקֶר (sheqer) which can indicate mere falseness. This specific word choice suggests the meal itself becomes a tool of manipulation, highlighting the social-political dangers in ancient court settings.
  • Verse 4’s admonition against wearing oneself out for wealth uses the verb יָגַע (yaga), which connotes exhausting labor, rather than עָבַד (abad) for ordinary work. This emphasizes the self-destructive nature of wealth pursuit rather than the normal dignity of labor.
  • The description of the drunkard’s experience in verses 29-35 uses highly poetic language with specific Hebrew wordplay that connects sound to sense. The repetition of הוֹי (hoy) creates an onomatopoetic effect mimicking the moans of the hungover, a deliberate literary choice enhancing the passage’s memorability.
  • The warning about the harlot as a “deep pit” in verse 27 uses the word שׁוּחָה (shukhah) rather than the more common בּוֹר (bor) for pit. This specific term suggests a carefully concealed trap rather than an obvious danger, emphasizing the deceptive nature of sexual temptation.

Proverbs 23 Unique Insights

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The ancient Jewish sages noted a fascinating pattern in this chapter’s structure that reflects the holistic nature of wisdom. The progression from warnings about physical appetite (verses 1-3) to spiritual discernment (verses 9-12) and back to physical temptations (verses 29-35) demonstrates how wisdom must govern both body and soul. This interconnection reflects the Hebrew understanding that spiritual and physical disciplines are inseparable.

The Targum’s interpretation of verse 11’s reference to a “strong redeemer” (גֹאֵל חָזָק) is particularly significant from a Messianic perspective. The Aramaic paraphrase explicitly connects this to the concept of the Divine Redeemer, anticipating the role of Messiah Yeshua as both Kinsman-Redeemer and Mighty Defender of His people. This interpretation gained additional weight among early Jewish believers who saw in Yeshua the fulfillment of both roles.

The chapter’s treatment of wine and strong drink (verses 29-35) contains what ancient commentators identified as a chiastic structure, with the central focus being the serpent imagery in verse 32. This structural insight reveals how the text moves from external symptoms to internal corruption and back, creating a complete picture of addiction’s destructive cycle. Early rabbinic sources connected this passage to the serpent in Eden, seeing both as examples of how pleasure can be weaponized against wisdom.

The repeated emphasis on the “heart” (לֵב, lev) throughout the chapter (verses 7, 12, 15, 17, 19, 26) reveals a sophisticated understanding of human psychology that anticipates modern insights about the connection between belief, behavior, and character formation. The ancient Hebrew concept of the heart as the seat of both intellect and will provides a framework for understanding how wisdom transforms the whole person.

Proverbs 23 Connections to Yeshua

The chapter’s emphasis on true versus false satisfaction powerfully foreshadows Yeshua’s teaching about being the Bread of Life (John 6:35). The warnings against being seduced by temporary pleasures find their positive fulfillment in Messiah’s offer of eternal satisfaction. This connection is particularly evident in the chapter’s treatment of deceptive food (verses 1-3) and intoxicating drink (verses 29-35), which contrast with Yeshua’s provision of true spiritual nourishment.

The strong redeemer mentioned in verse 11 points prophetically to Yeshua’s role as our Kinsman-Redeemer. Just as this figure in Proverbs defends the property rights of the vulnerable, Messiah Yeshua redeems His people’s lost inheritance through His sacrificial death and resurrection. This theme connects to the broader Biblical narrative of redemption, finding its ultimate fulfillment in Revelation 5:9 where Yeshua is praised as the One who purchased people for God through His blood.

Proverbs 23 Scriptural Echoes

This chapter’s warnings about wealth resonate with Yeshua’s teachings in Matthew 6:19-21 about storing up treasures in heaven. The emphasis on eternal versus temporal values creates a thematic bridge across both testaments.

The parent-child relationship emphasized in verses 22-26 echoes the Fifth Commandment (Exodus 20:12) while anticipating Paul’s teaching in Ephesians 6:1-4. This continuity demonstrates how wisdom literature connects law and grace through practical application.

The metaphor of the path or way (verses 19, 26) connects to numerous Biblical passages, including Psalm 1, Jeremiah 6:16, and Yeshua’s teaching about the narrow way in Matthew 7:13-14.

Proverbs 23 Devotional

This chapter calls us to examine our appetites – not just for food and drink, but for all things that compete for our devotion to God. The warning about “deceptive food” invites us to consider what temporary pleasures might be distracting us from eternal satisfaction in יהוה. Where might we be accepting substitutes for true spiritual nourishment?

The repeated emphasis on the heart challenges us to pursue transformation from the inside out. Rather than merely modifying behavior, we’re called to allow God’s wisdom to reshape our desires and motivations. This involves both receiving correction (verses 12-14) and actively pursuing wisdom (verses 15-16).

The vivid description of addiction’s consequences (verses 29-35) serves as a sobering reminder that our choices have real consequences. Yet the chapter’s emphasis on parental guidance and divine protection offers hope – we’re not left to navigate life’s temptations alone. God provides both wisdom for the journey and community for support.

Did You Know

  • The “thirty sayings” section that includes this chapter shows remarkable parallels with Egyptian wisdom literature, particularly the “Instruction of Amenemope,” demonstrating how God’s wisdom interacted with and transformed ancient Near Eastern culture while maintaining its distinct spiritual character.
  • The Hebrew phrase “put a knife to your throat” (verse 2) was a common idiom in ancient Middle Eastern royal courts, warning against losing self-control in the presence of authority figures. Similar expressions have been found in ancient Akkadian texts.
  • The description of wine in verses 31-32 uses technical terminology from ancient viniculture, suggesting the author had detailed knowledge of wine production and its effects.
  • The warning about property boundaries (verse 10) reflects ancient Near Eastern customs where boundary stones often carried curses against those who would move them, showing how the Bible grounds moral teachings in practical social contexts.
  • The repeated use of the word “heart” (לֵב) throughout the chapter reflects the Hebrew understanding of the heart as the center of both thinking and feeling, different from modern Western psychology’s separation of emotion and reason.
  • The metaphor of the “strange woman” (verse 27) employs language similar to that found in ancient treaty warnings about foreign alliances, suggesting both moral and political dimensions to the warning.
  • The chapter’s structure follows a pattern common in ancient wisdom literature called “instruction,” where direct address (“my son”) is combined with reasoned arguments and vivid illustrations to persuade the reader toward wise choices.

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